Why worry?

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

When I started this blog I had an idea of how I wanted to present it and how I want it to be perceived, that doesn't always mean its going to happen. Part of me wants it to seem professional-like I have myself together and know what I'm talking about, and another part of me wants it to be realistic and messy-how my mind really is lol. I really wanted this to be a beauty/lifestyle blog. Mostly cos I wanted to post about my growing obsession with makeup. But I keep giving myself the "I have too much to do" excuse. Everything I post is about my daughter, because lets get real, of course she takes up most of my time unless she's asleep-as she should. But when I started this blog I was pregnant, sure I was working full time but I didn't have a real excuse not to post other than I was "too tired" or just blatantly-too lazy. Which is probably the main reason.

I'm not a resolution person, I can't even stick to a hobby(something I love) for more than a week, how could I stick to something for an entire year? When it seems like we set these goals because we have to do certain things, not because we want to. I want 2015 to be the year that I stop worrying. Stop stressing. Just let things be~

Easier said than done for me, I've been planning my daughters first birthday party for about 4 months now. It's in about 3 weeks. Just try to imagine how much I'm freaking out right now. But, everything honestly does fall into place for me. Doesn't mean mistakes won't be made and I won't have a disaster just cos I decided to relax the week before. I'm counting on burning at least one batch of cupcakes. So I took the day before her party off from work just in case lol.

I'm writing this while I'm at work so I don't have some inspiring photo to share with this post.

Just thought I would share whats been on my mind in the first week of 2015, worrying about how much I worry haha.
I guess I'll do a few realistic goals;
1. Take more pictures
2. Post only about things/people I am passionate about
3. Stop worrying
those were the only things I felt I would actually stick by and actually pursue the entire year.

6 comments:

  1. Aww, try not to worry to much sweety, it will do you no good!
    Hope your daughter has an amazing first birthday and that the baking goes well.
    I really like your blog, new follower for you :)

    Meme xx
    http://thedayinthelifeofmexoxo.blogspot.co.uk/ (Hope to see you around on my blog <3)

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    1. Aww thank you so much!
      I'll definitely be checking yours out!

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  2. Great resolutions. I'm focusing on making smaller, short-term goals that add up to my 3 big important resolutions this year.

    Erin | Erin and Katherine Talk Beauty

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    1. I think that's definitely the best way to do it, that way you don't overwhelm yourself.
      I love your blog, such beautiful photos!

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  3. those are some good goals! i know what you mean about seeming professional, it can be discouraging with so many great quality blogs out there now.

    xx danielle // shades of danielle // bloglovin

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